Saying sorry is something which
many believe will do miracles whenever there are wrangles in
marriage. That is slightly right but the fact remains that it may not
reverse the damage and may not heal the wounds that could have been
inflicted on your partner. With that idea in mind, as much as saying
sorry is casual and the first step towards seeking forgiveness, it is
important to prove that you are actually sorry. In order to save your
marriage, you need not to say sorry but accompany that sorry with
prove that you actually mean sorry.
It is unfortunate that our partners in marriage may not have what it takes to determine whether we mean it whenever we say sorry. Just saying sorry may be taken lightly and that is the reason why you need to make sure that you follow that sorry with an action which will actually show that you are truly sorry. Here are some of the things you can do after saying sorry so as to save your marriage whenever you feel that you marriage is heading towards the wrong direction.
Accompany that “sorry” with flowers
Flowers do speak a lot especially when presented towards women in marriage. As for men, you can always accompany that sorry with something that he likes. This will show that someone is not just sorry but has shown it with action. In so doing, you will be in a position to save you marriage by making your partner feel loved and valued.
Try to reverse the damages
As much as you may not be in a position to reverse the damages that will have been done to the heart, you can accompany that sorry with an action such as trying to reverse the physical materials. The physical materials include finances; in the event that you might have been having issues related to spousal finances. You can also reverse things such as bringing yourself back to your spouse if you had distanced away from him/her. By reversing thing, you will have a good chance to save your marriage.
Show some sincere remorse
After saying sorry, there are those individuals who might not show even a single face of remorse. Whenever there is no sign of remorse, you will certainly feel like your partner does not mean what she say. In order to show some remorse, it is very crucial to make sure that you show it by either shedding tears or even by kneeling and begging for forgiveness. These are some of the actions which will make someone believe that you are actually sorry and will be the first step towards saving your marriage.
Keep talking about how wrong you were
You will also be able to save your marriage by making sure that you submit to the idea that you were wrong and that you regret what you have done. If possible, express how you hate yourself for what has happened and this will make your spouse feel like you are actually feeling sorry and no just saying sorry.